Bridging the Gap

Thank you for taking time to read through our Messenger! What a blessing it is for us to show you some of the ways in which God is working through STCH Ministries. As you read through the stories shared, please take a moment to say a prayer for those highlighted. As you know, what is shared is a small portion of their story and we know God has a great plan. 

I find bridges to be marvels of engineering. The civil and structural engineers who design and build bridges have the complex responsibility of managing many phases of the design and construction that are vital to the project’s success. Some of these phases include site planning, foundation work, building the substructure, completing the superstructure, inspections and testing to name a few. Many times, architects are involved in the design of a bridge for a variety of reasons. Some bridges are fairly simple to build and others are seriously complex. 

Generally speaking, bridges are designed and built with painstaking detail to provide a way to cross an obstacle, such as a body of water, valley, road or railway, without blocking the path underneath. We rely greatly on bridges to help us navigate through our lives. I challenge you to think about how often you use a bridge. How much designing and planning went into that bridge, and how much more difficult our lives would be without it? 

When I think of bridges, I think of connection in spite of an obstacle. In the same way, bridges are used to overcome obstacles, in life we face situations where we have an obstacle, and we need to overcome it. At times those obstacles can be minor and easily dealt with but other times we need help. I believe it is vital that we are connected with the Great Connector, our heavenly Father. How many times in life have we faced obstacles that seem insurmountable? We must realize that with God, all things are possible. 

You might be facing an obstacle as you read this today. I encourage you; no challenge is too big for the Great Connector. We also know that God uses His people to be that blessing and help in times of trouble. Here at STCH Ministries, that is what we desire; for God to use us how He sees fit, in a variety of situations, to reveal His character to those we minister to. I am not sure how large of a bridge you need built for the obstacle you are facing, but I do know it starts with God. Also, are you open to God using you to be a connector for those in their time of need? God uses His people to do His work. We know while the needs are great, the laborers are few. 

Let’s commit to being bridge builders for those facing challenges! 

Romans 12:21- Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. 

A Mission Close to Home

FOR THREE YEARS, students and parents from Waypoint Church in Richmond, Texas have traveled to Boothe Campus for a week of missions, including Vacation Bible School, games, worship and fellowship. This year, the group of participants almost doubled in size and a new plan came to fruition. Half of the group stayed and did activities on the Homes for Children campus while the other half traveled to our Marshall Campus in Goliad to spend time with the mothers and children from both Homes for Families campuses. 

The goal of the mission trip was simple: impact generations. Student leaders from the group prepared the different Vacation Bible School stations for the children on campus, including music, story time, games, science activities and snacks. On Tuesday morning when the group arrived, the children on the campus waited patiently as everything came together, but as soon as the activities started, they quickly bonded with their new friends. Estefania, one of the moms on campus shared, “To have Waypoint here with me and my family meant a lot to us. My children have been wanting to be part of something with more children their ages and this was just divine timing for them. They formed new relationships and held on to things they learned being with the group throughout the week.” 

For some students who traveled to Homes for Families, it was their third time attending a STCH Ministries mission trip, but their first time attending one at Homes for Families. One student, Avery, reflected on the most impactful part of the trip. “Being able to see the incredible changes throughout the children as the week progressed was so impactful. With this being our first time on this campus, I was not surprised when some of the children were more closed off than others and maybe didn’t want to participate in everything we were doing. But this made it all the more exciting when, as the week went on, these children would become more and more involved every day, and I was able to see their beautiful personalities take shape and impact everyone around them in such a positive manner.” 

While the children were busy with Vacation Bible School, the mothers attended a workout class with Alli, one of the adults on the trip. Alli, a fitness instructor, created a workout guide entitled “Movement for God,” which she introduced to the mothers during their first fitness session. The session included a high-powered workout as the mothers spoke truth over themselves. “I am bold, brave, believed in. I am fierce, fearless, free. I am strong, confident, His,” rang out around the gym as the women completed the workout. “The smiles on the faces of these women as they began to speak these words aloud were just priceless,” Alli shared. “We sweated, we smiled and we praised during the workout!” 

During a break from the workout, the mothers began sharing their hearts and testimonies with Alli. She paused to listen to stories of transformation and restoration. She felt God telling her to pivot some of the activities she had planned for the rest of the week. As day two of the trip started, Alli invited the church’s worship leader, who was also on the trip, to come and lead worship for the ladies. She had planned for him to do one song but that one song turned into almost two hours of worshipping and connecting with God. Alli realized their hearts needed this more than the workout session she had planned and loved getting to experience these moments with the women. 

Jasmyne, from Marshall Campus, shared, “Spending time with the body of Christ and praising the Lord with each other was so beautiful. I am so grateful to have been a part of that. I am so glad we can encourage and uplift one another.” Another mother, Klavdia, expressed, “I liked worship time, it was a beautiful time to connect with God. The guitar player was a young man who did an amazing job. I have also encouraged my kids to play instruments for worship during church.” 

In the afternoon, Alli’s sister-in-law, Michelle, visited with the mothers. The women gathered in the kitchen as Michelle showed them how to prepare fresh, healthy meals. As she cooked, she shared how food can heal the body and help the mind, not just for the mothers, but for their children also. After the meal preparation, the women gathered around the table, shared their stories and asked questions about what they had learned. Jasmyne also shared, “The Lord reminded me to change my perspective, taking my eyes off of me and keeping them on Him and His holy Spirit when it comes to my motive for being healthy and fit and in every other area of life.” This time together led to a deeper connection, a bond that will not be easily broken. 

While the mothers and children participated in these fun activities, a group of men from Waypoint helped with maintenance projects around the campus. One of the men, Alli’s husband, Ronnie, felt a special connection to the campus. Ronnie’s father grew up in a boy’s home and Ronnie recognized the importance of impacting not just the mothers but their children as well. “Seeing these kids makes me want to pour love into them, whether through creating a fun atmosphere with games, hanging out or working on projects around campus to make it an even better place for them to learn and grow,” Ronnie shared. “Being on this campus, whether working on the facilities or spending time with the kids, means everything to me. It runs deep, as I know I’m a product of a man who grew up in similar circumstances.” Although the maintenance projects required hard work, the men left refreshed and renewed because of what they accomplished. 

The students and adults from Waypoint loved seeing the impact one week can have on the lives of those on our campuses and in their church. One of the pastors from Waypoint, Randy, expressed, “Seeing God use our student’s willingness to sacrifice being together on one campus was inspiring. Dividing across two campuses allowed us to double our impact and reach kids not previously in our aim. This required a leap of faith to trust God to provide double the student leaders to cover both campuses, give direction to minister to the group of moms at Marshall Campus, and bring twice as many adults with us to assist and direct students across two campuses.” The mothers and children loved having the group on campus and look forward to them coming back in the future. 

STCH Ministries is grateful for the groups that travel to our campuses and take time to pour into the lives of multiple generations. If you or your church are interested in doing a mission trip to one of our campuses please reach out to Theresa Klacman, tklacman@stchm.org for Homes for Families, or Benjamin Brewer, bbrewer@stchm.org for Homes for Children. 

Empowering Communities Through God’s Provision

IN A VIBRANT COMMUNITY NEAR KATY, TEXAS, God transforms lives through STCH Ministries Community Ministries. Partnering with Family Hope and River Bend Baptist Church, they reach out to Venezuelan members of the community and other residents, offering classes that act as essential lifelines for those working to build stable lives. These classes, including Faith & Finances and Faith & Work, serve as vehicles of God’s grace, offering hope and transformation. They are available in Spanish to ensure accessibility for the community. 

Since 2014, Family Hope has been serving northern Fort Bend County, helping transform individuals into healthy families through services such as medical aid, food, rent and utility assistance, job searches and disaster relief. Recognizing the community’s deep spiritual and practical needs, STCH Ministries partnered with Family Hope to complement their mission. The recent restructuring of STCH Ministries Faith & Work into two components — “Job Readiness,” focusing on essential job skills, and the full ten-week course, helping participants apply their unique, God-given design in the marketplace — perfectly aligned with the needs of Family Hope’s people. 

One of the most significant outcomes of this partnership has been offering the Faith & Finances class to the Venezuelan members of the community. For many, financial stability seemed out of reach, complicated by the challenges of life in a new country. However, through the Faith & Finances class, participants learned crucial skills supported by Biblical principles, empowering them to take control of their financial futures with God’s guidance. 

Denis and Gledys, a couple who completed the ten-week program, expressed gratitude for how God worked through the class. 

“We have learned to consider the income and expenses that we have, consult on the expenses and eliminate what does not add or contribute to it,” they wrote. 

“We have learned to communicate; this has made it easier for our finances to be clearer and used for the good of our home.” The lessons go beyond traditional financial education by incorporating Biblical teachings, helping the participants manage their money in a way that honors God and promoting long-term financial health. For members of the community like Denis and Gledys, these God-given lessons are invaluable as they navigate the complexities of a new financial system. 

In addition to financial education, STCH Ministries Faith & Work – Job Readiness equips participants with the skills they need to succeed in the workforce, which is especially crucial for people facing significant barriers to employment. These workshops teach practical job skills while emphasizing the importance of seeking God’s guidance at every step of their career paths. Sikiu Millán participated in the Job Readiness seminars and highlighted the value of these sessions, saying, “It is a super important tool to be able to find that dream job that we talk so much about.” 

These workshops help participants craft resumes that highlight their strengths and align with employer needs, all while keeping God at the center of their goals. This holistic approach equips them with practical tools and instills a sense of purpose and hope grounded in God’s plan for their lives. Daniela, another participant who attended both Faith & Finances and Job Readiness, shared how these teachings transformed her life. “Participating in the classes that STCH Ministries offers has helped me in many ways; I followed everything they said, step by step. I dressed, spoke, acted and did everything just as they taught in the steps to follow in the class, and the day after my interview, I got the job! I also improved my resume, the right way it is done here in the United States. I highly recommend any course or class offered by STCH Ministries. Their teaching is effective and truly enhances your daily life. I hope it works for everyone as well as it did for me. Also, many thanks to Family Hope for the opportunity to obtain this knowledge through STCH Ministries.” 

River Bend Baptist Church has been instrumental in God’s work through this partnership. When Family Hope needed a facility to host the Faith & Finances class, River Bend Baptist Church answered the call, opening its doors to support this God-driven initiative. This collaboration provided a tremendous opportunity for the church to further its mission of serving the community in God’s name. Beyond providing a venue, River Bend Baptist Church has been actively engaged in food drives and other initiatives to support Family Hope’s efforts. Working together in God’s service, River Bend Baptist Church, Family Hope and STCH Ministries have built a strong support network, making a tangible difference in the lives they serve. 

STCH Ministries Faith & Finances and Faith & Work classes have a profound impact under God’s guidance. For many participants, these classes serve as a turning point, offering them the tools and confidence they need to build a better future for themselves and their families with God’s help. Through the Faith & Finances class, participants learn to manage their money wisely, set financial goals and make informed decisions that will lead to long-term stability—all while keeping God at the center. 

Faith & Work – Job Readiness equips them with the skills they need to succeed in the job market, helping them overcome barriers through faith. 

This author, also the instructor of these Spanish courses, witnessed the transformation in participants who took part in both classes. They arrived as strangers, feeling hopeless and isolated in a new country, seeking community. By the end, they recognized the value of their abilities to the USA and found a path to a fulfilling life here. 

As STCH Ministries continues to expand its reach through partnerships like the one with Family Hope, the potential for God’s impact is limitless. By addressing the community’s immediate needs—such as financial literacy and job readiness—while nurturing spiritual growth, STCH Ministries is creating a lasting legacy of transformation in God’s name. The collaboration between STCH Ministries, Family Hope and River Bend Baptist Church serves as a powerful example of what can be achieved when organizations come together with a shared vision of God’s compassion and service. As they continue to offer life skills classes and other vital services, they are not just changing lives—they are building a stronger, healthier community for generations to come, all to the glory of God. For those involved in these efforts, the rewards are immeasurable. Each success story, each life transformed, is a testament to the power of God working through their faith, education and community support. As STCH Ministries and its partners continue their work, they expect to see many more lives changed for the better, all in God’s perfect timing. 

The full Faith & Work course will be offered through Family Hope in the spring. Like the other classes, it will also be available in Spanish, ensuring that even more lives can be touched by God’s guidance and provision. 

If you are interested in a Faith & Work or Faith & Finances class, please visit, www.STCHM.org/fw for more information and class schedules. 

When Helping Works

“WHAT IS THE GREATEST COMMANDMENT?” Jesus was asked. His answer: “Love God with all your heart, soul and mind, and love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:37) With those words, every Christ-follower is commissioned to care for the needs of others. STCH Ministries’ vision states, “We want to create a culture where the needs of families are seen and met in creative and innovative ways.” 

Meeting the needs of families became the impetus for developing the unique approach of designing mission activities that include children and parents working together towards a common goal. STCH Ministries International encourages families to use their unique skills to strengthen other families, inspire leaders and make disciples. There are no cookie-cutter schedules; each trip is customized to use the skills presented by team members to meet the expressed needs of ministry partners. Most importantly, as teams invest resources, training and sweat equity, their investment is nurtured by the boots-on-the-ground, partner ministries with whom they have shared. They can return to see growth and fruit from their efforts, rejoicing as co-laborers, whether in the Dominican Republic or El Salvador. 

Some of the creative and innovative ways mission teams served during the summer of 2024 included giving haircuts to the boys at the Higuey orphanage, many of whom were of Haitian descent. At another site, a nurse taught a class on nutrition to parents. More than one team included children with their parents, demonstrating baking and sewing projects or teaching ESL using a bingo game. Two teams organized and presented a family festival for the local church. Games, musical chairs, a photo booth and a devotional time for children, teens and adults drew many unreached families to the local church. Families worked together to build furniture for Bible classes, orphanages and schools. Classes on finances, CPR training and various lessons on parenting and marriage relationships were shared by team members. 

One participant shared, “I am just a science teacher, but any skill given to God can be used in His kingdom!” 

The central motivation for these diverse ministries is to share the Gospel and equip the saints. When the Apostle Paul discussed the use of diverse gifts in Ephesians 4:12, he made it clear that we have a responsibility to equip God’s people to do His work and build up the body of Christ.” Peter further emphasizes, “God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another… Then everything you do will bring glory to God through Jesus Christ” 1 Peter 4:10-11. 

Schools have become an important focus of mission trip efforts. A typical teacher in public schools may have between 50- 60 children in a classroom without a teacher’s aide, with limited to non-existent basic resources such as books, notebooks, computers and even school supplies. One Dominican teacher shared many years ago, “I remember when we had to break pencils and crayons in half in order to give each child something to write with.” 

For the last 12 years, a group of teachers led by Ruth Ann Mitchell from Crossroads Baptist in The Woodlands, have presented an annual teachers’ conference. Rebeca Dinzey, Director of the Samuel’s Fund sponsorship program, stated: 

“The teacher training has made a great difference in our schools. Innovative ideas and strategies have produced a change in the classroom. Students are more engaged and interested in learning.” 

Along with sharing skills and knowledge with other teachers, the teachers have grown in their passion to share their faith. They have learned to communicate effectively through translators. As one participant stated, “Not speaking Spanish is a speed bump, not an obstacle.” In addition, the goal is not the subject matter but to share creative methods using inexpensive and readily available resources. “Can you use basic pebbles and leaves to teach elementary children to count, add and subtract? How can you keep children engaged using red and green pieces of paper to answer true-or-false questions?” 

Relaxing and swimming in the Caribbean Sea just hours after their 2023 teacher’s conference, Tamara Lee and Janet Holloway felt energized and inspired as they reviewed their recent presentation organized around games and movement. Their text was the Biblical story of creation. They taught and reviewed God’s providence in the creation of the world, then demonstrated innovative games and movement activities that would help children stay engaged and remember important facts. 

The teachers were divided into small groups of 3-4. Every small group then worked together developing hand signs representing each of the seven creation days, then demonstrated them to the larger class. Another activity engaged the natural competitive spirit of the Dominican culture. Participants stood in a circle and tossed a beach ball back and forth to each other. The ball was marked with numbers 1-7. Depending on which number their thumb landed, they called out the corresponding creation event. The circle grew smaller as those who could not remember dropped out. Teachers eagerly grasped how to adapt these activities to teach mathematics and review geography facts, historical events and more. 

“I know what we are presenting next year for our topic,” Tamara declared. “We’re going to teach how to use graphic organizers for a variety of subjects.” Graphic organizers use diagrams and pictures with minimal words to communicate thoughts. They can demonstrate relationships between facts, and substitute for words of explanation when communicating a bigger idea. 

Over the following year, Janet and Tamara began to research graphic organizers. One type they explored is known as mind mapping. A problem is encircled with limited words, then lines proceed from the circle to various solutions or causes, each identified with a word or two. Visually seeing a problem laid out in a drawing promotes discussion by the verbal learner, and reinforces the visual learner at the same time. 

Teachers often need to communicate significant events in a specific order. The graphic organizer of sequencing illustrates these facts visually. For example, a line drawn across a page or a whiteboard can list a birthdate, then the current date and then another 4-5 significant events in a person’s life. The same tool can be used to teach important milestones in Dominican history, the development of transportation or the evolution of medicine. The graphic organizers challenged teachers to consider, “What would this look like in your own context?” As they understood and assimilated these concepts, the teachers applied them to their specific fields of study—physics, biology and Spanish grammar. 

As Janet and Tamara planned and prayed, they became most excited about a specific graphic organizer depicting a cycle. It was the perfect tool for presenting the Gospel. The cycle graphic organizer would use three circles and keywords, to visually illustrate God’s original perfect creation, then the brokenness that entered the world through sin and finally God’s plan of redemption. 

They began by preparing a folder containing several pages for each participant. A plastic protector encased each page, which would enable a person to write with a marker, and then rub off the words. The first page illustrated the complete Gospel story and each succeeding page left off some of the drawings. The participants could fill in the missing information as they memorized, reviewed and then shared the story with others. 

Together with the whole team, they prayed about every detail. “The previous year, we had worked with an outstanding translator, and we began to pray specifically that God would supply that need again. We even contacted STCH Ministries staff to request him, only to be informed that he would not be attending this year. Swallowing our disappointment, we continued to pray about the translator we needed.” 

On-site in the town of Higuey, they met Scarlett, the young woman assigned as their translator, who was currently employed as a caregiver for the Samuel’s Fund sponsorship program. Winsome and energetic with an ever-present smile, Scarlett worked flawlessly with the team to present the graphic organizers they had prepared. Then, they focused on the three circles diagram. 

The teachers listened, reviewed and practiced sharing the Gospel with each other. Then they were told in English by the presenter, “Now you have homework—go home and practice with a family member, then a friend or a neighbor.” However, Scarlett felt inspired to substitute a word for ‘homework.’ Scarlett translated, “Now you have an opportunity to share with a family member and a neighbor. Come back tomorrow and share your experience with us.” 

Nagela was excited. She went home and shared it with her three daughters, ages 13, 10 and 9. They were familiar with the Gospel story, but as Nagela went through the exercise with them, the Spirit of God applied the message to their own lives personally, and in that moment, they understood their need to accept Christ. “Mama, we are like the broken circle. We don’t always obey, we take things we should not, we don’t treat each other right.” Right there, one at a time, they acknowledged their need for Christ and prayed, accepting Him as their Savior. Nagela’s husband, listening from the other room, came to join their conversation and together they shared in this life-changing moment. 

Nagela could not wait to get to the training on the following day. However, she woke to a tropical rainstorm, a normal occurrence during the Dominican rainy season. Nagela was determined to get to class, although walking was her only option. She arrived late to class. “Am I too late? Has sharing time passed? I have a story to share, is there still time?” she queried. They gladly made time to hear her story, as Nagela eagerly shared the work God had accomplished in their family! 

Later the team of translators and American teachers reviewed the events that had transpired. 

Tamara told Scarlett, “I know a little Spanish, and I realized that you changed my words from homework to opportunity. Thank you for translating my heart!” 

Reflecting on their experience, co-presenters Tamara and Janet shared, “We were telling God what we thought we needed, like, God didn’t know better than we did? From now on we will pray, “God, send me the proper translator. You know what I need!” 

STCH Ministries prayers are empowered by the conviction that individuals in every culture have the responsibility to serve their neighbor, equip them to do His work and build up the church. STCH Ministries believes that individuals and families serving together can effectively minister to the needs of other families and equip churches, schools and orphanages to continue the work God has given them. As they share their gifts and talents collaboratively, they serve each other, and “everything they do brings glory to God through Jesus Christ.” 

Rooted in Faith: The Arriaga Family’s Testimony of God’s Provision

OLGA ARRIAGA STOOD IN THE MIDDLE of the bustling Walmart aisle, surrounded by her five children. The noise of clattering carts and conversations filled the air, but her mind was focused on one thing: needs versus wants. It was a lesson she and her husband, Augustin Sr., had been learning together through STCH Ministries Faith […]

Committed for His Purpose

Thank you for taking the time to read our Messenger magazine! I hope and pray the stories shared are as much of an inspiration to you as they are to me. What a blessing it is to be a part of the team that is able to witness God working in the lives of those we are fortunate enough to serve! 

Over the past couple of months, part of my personal Bible study has centered around Romans 12. We know that Paul wrote this important book of the Bible to, you guessed it, the community of believers in Rome. The book of Romans is arguably the New Testament’s most structured and most detailed description of Christian theology. Paul lays out the simple gospel message: salvation by grace alone through faith alone. His intent is to explain the good news of Jesus Christ in accurate and clear terms. As is common in his writing, Paul closes out his letter with a series of practical applications. Paul really outdid himself when writing this chapter! As I ponder the meaning of this chapter and how I should apply it to my life, I keep coming back to the ideas of commitment, sacrifice and transformation. In practical terms, to be a success at any endeavor, there must be a commitment. 

One of the most interesting secular studies was conducted over many years by Dr. Lewis M. Terman. Initiated in 1921, the Genetic Studies of Genius was a long-term study of gifted children. He selected approximately 1,500 children (called Termites) with the highest IQs he could find. Terman’s study and interest in genius and gifted children was a lifelong pursuit. He wanted to debunk stereotypes concerning genius children, and he also wanted to design educational systems to make sure they were challenged. It is the longest-running psychological study ever conducted. As of 2020, there were two of the children still alive at the age of 104! 

There are many who point out various issues with Terman’s research and even the data that he reported. When you look at what was discovered, the results are varied. The success of the group as a whole was undeniable. However, two of the children who were left out of the study for not having high enough IQs both won Nobel Prizes in physics. So, what do we make of this study? To answer this question, I refer to the book: Outliers (Gladwell, 2008). What Gladwell found was that there are a series of “advantages” that some are privy to and others are not. But one common theme of success, no matter the IQ, field of study or profession of choice, is commitment. An ability to understand what needs to be done and a willingness to commit to doing it (others have described this attribute as tenacity or “grit”). 

When we think about our faith, commitment is vital. Paul implores us to be dedicated and pleasing to our Heavenly Father. There is something glorious about the kind of commitment that says, “I am turning it all over to you Lord.” If we will go all in, then there’s no limit to what can happen. Here at STCH Ministries, we are looking for those committed to their calling! Without dedicated and tenacious laborers, there would be no stories of success in this Messenger. 

Dedicate Your Lives to God 

Romans 12: 1-3 “Brothers and sisters, in view of all we have just shared about God’s compassion, I encourage you to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, dedicated to God and pleasing to him. This kind of worship is appropriate for you. Don’t become like the people of this world. Instead, change the way you think. Then you will always be able to determine what God really wants—what is good, pleasing, and perfect. Because of the kindness that God has shown me, I ask you not to think of yourselves more highly than you should. Instead, your thoughts should lead you to use good judgment based on what God has given each of you as believers.” 

From Grief to Grace

JUSTIN AND HIS FAMILY HAVE FACED unimaginable heartache and emerged with a story of resilience and hope. From growing up in the small town of Marlin, Texas, to moving to the Valley with his family, Justin’s journey is one of profound loss, unexpected blessings and the transformative power of faith and counseling. 

A dedicated parent educator, Justin spends his days helping families nurture and develop their children. Moving from Marlin to Waco, he met his wife, whose career brought them to the Rio Grande Valley. Justin’s work involves engaging parents in activities that foster their children’s language, motor skills and cognitive development and educating them on family well-being. However, beneath his professional demeanor, Justin’s heart was burdened with profound personal grief. 

Early in their marriage, Justin and his wife faced the heartbreak of two miscarriages. Four years ago, the arrival of their son Josiah brought great joy to their lives. Two years later, the couple was thrilled to learn they were expecting their second son, Everett. However, their excitement was soon overshadowed by a devastating diagnosis: Everett had a rare condition called limb-body wall complex, which caused his internal organs to grow outside his body. Doctors informed them that Everett would not survive, bringing a deep well of sorrow into their hearts. 

Choosing to carry Everett to full term, Justin and his wife sought solace in their faith community, passionately praying for a miracle. On December 4, 2022, Justin received a call at work that something was wrong with his wife. Rushing her to the hospital, they faced the heart-wrenching reality of Everett’s birth via C-section. The trauma of witnessing his son’s condition and losing his son left Justin shattered. 

Grief overwhelmed Justin, and he broke down from the trauma of it all. His friends, trying to be supportive, avoided mentioning Everett, which only deepened Justin’s sense of isolation. He needed someone to talk to, someone to help him navigate his grief and pain. Seeking counseling, Justin first approached his church, but scheduling conflicts made it difficult for him to attend. Then, a church member recommended Caleb, a counselor from STCH Ministries. 

Shortly after Justin filled out the contact form, Caleb reached out to him. What stood out to Justin initially was that STCH Ministries provided counseling services regardless of his ability to pay. With medical bills and funeral expenses burdening his family, counseling would have been impossible without this support. 

Justin grew up in a home with rigid and damaging expectations about masculinity. This environment made Justin feel unsafe expressing his emotions. However, he soon found peace in Caleb’s compassionate and nonjudgmental approach to counseling. Caleb created a safe space for Justin, allowing him to finally express and process the feelings he had long suppressed. 

“I feel so comfortable with Caleb. He gives me a safe place to not worry about being criticized for having feelings and emotions over losing my son. That has helped me tremendously,” Justin shared. 

One of the most significant aspects of STCH Ministries’ support was Caleb’s shared faith. This common spiritual ground gave Justin a renewed connection to God, helping him see that despite his pain, God had never abandoned him. “He’s never left me. He’s never forsaken me. Caleb helped me to see that through his faith and our interactions. That’s beautiful,” Justin said. Through counseling, Justin began to understand that his son Everett was in a better place, surrounded by love and in the presence of God. 

Justin’s son, Josiah, also had to cope with Everett’s passing. During the pregnancy, the family tried their best to prepare Josiah, explaining that his baby brother would not stay with them but would go to heaven. During the singing of a hymn at Everett’s memorial service, a vision of his son in a garden with God brought Justin to tears. Toddler Josiah, seeing his father cry, offered comfort and cried with him, a tender moment that reinforced the importance of expressing emotions. “I thought that was good for me to show him that it’s okay for men to cry. I’m glad we have that experience together,” Justin expressed. 

The family is committed to keeping Everett’s memory alive while helping Josiah process the loss. Every other week, they pick out fresh flowers to set at Everett’s urn, which sits at their dining room table. They also have a little fire truck that they keep nearby for “baby brother”. 

These special moments, along with their mutual support during tough times, have been essential to the healing process. After an EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy session, which is a technique that uses guided eye movements to help people process and heal from trauma more quickly than traditional talk therapy, Justin often returns home feeling sensitive and emotional. Recognizing his exhaustion, Justin’s wife gently explains to Josiah that Daddy is feeling sad. In response, Josiah often gives his father a comforting hug. “Those hugs felt good because it was nothing I ever had growing up in my household. I appreciate my son comforting me when I’m feeling sad.” 

Counseling with STCH Ministries has also improved Justin’s marriage. He has learned to communicate his needs and feelings more openly, preventing emotions from building up and causing strain. This newfound openness extends to his workplace, where Justin has shared his story with his boss, creating an understanding and supportive environment. 

Through counseling, Justin has gained invaluable skills to manage anxiety and emotional breakdowns. He now uses these skills to support families he works with, sharing his story and the tools he has learned with parents who have had similar losses. Justin’s comfort with sharing his experiences has grown, and he can now think about Everett with a sense of peace and love. 

Growing up, Justin knew God was with him and saw evidence of His presence throughout his life. However, during his season of grief, he felt abandoned and struggled to see signs of God’s presence despite his constant prayers. The healing he has gained through counseling has opened Justin’s eyes to see God’s work in his life again. 

Justin also recognized the importance of surrounding himself with supportive, faith-filled friends. After moving to the Valley, the friendships he formed often brought out behaviors in Justin that he did not like. After Everett passed away, none of his previous friends were there for him. Justin realized that God was showing him the difference between the friends he had, and the kinds of friends God wanted for him. 

“Since everything happened, I’ve taken out the things that were toxic, and now my whole life is getting better. I feel that is God moving. He’s in control and still has plans for me, and I have people that support me now,” Justin said. 

Justin believes that Everett’s passing and his family’s grief are part of the larger story of God’s redemption. He continues to attend counseling, hopeful for ongoing healing and eager to help others by sharing his experiences. Recently, Justin shared his story at a work training session without breaking down, evidence of his progress. 

“STCH Ministries Family Counseling is a wonderful ministry, and I’m thankful they were able to work with me when we were financially distressed. I know the positive impact this ministry has had on me, and I want it to be able to help others, so I’m happy to support them now that we can,” Justin concluded. Through the compassionate support of STCH Ministries, Justin has found hope, healing and a renewed sense of faith, empowering him to support his family and others through their own journeys of grief and recovery. 

The Unfinished Mission

“AND THIS GOSPEL of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world,” Jesus said in Matthew 24:14. To the early disciples, Jesus’ words presented a mind-blowing challenge. Although their known world was geographically smaller, a person could only walk 10-15 miles daily, and a normal day’s ride on a horse over hilly terrain might cover 25-30 miles. More than 2000 years later, the world has expanded across the hemispheres and oceans, cultures and languages. Even with modern technological advances of internet, satellites, rockets and supersonic jets, proclaiming the Gospel of the Kingdom throughout the whole world is a daunting task, an unfinished mission. 

From the early disciples to missionaries who have dedicated their lives and martyrs who have sacrificed their lives, a relentless drumbeat of longing to fulfill that mission continues in the hearts of those who have tasted the joy of knowing Christ, of sins forgiven and of a transformed life. 

The ancient hymn resounds: 

‘O for a thousand tongues to sing, my great Redeemer’s praise 

To spread through all the earth abroad, the honors of your name’ 

And the contemporary artist Cody Carnes sings, ‘Christ be Magnified!’ 

‘Were creation suddenly articulate, with a thousand tongues to lift one cry 

Then from North to South and East to West, we’d hear Christ be magnified!’ 

How can the 21st-century family of God respond to this challenge? This is certainly not a task that any one individual, one ministry or even one nation can accomplish. Would multi-level collaboration strengthen and extend our efforts to fulfill Christ’s missional proclamation? 

There is the critical dimension of collaboration between goers and senders. 3 John 1:6 affirms the senders’ role: “You will do well to send them on in a manner worthy of God.” Not everyone can be a goer, but if we are not called to be goers, then collectively, we are charged to be senders of the message and hope of Jesus throughout the world. 

A second and exciting level of collaboration occurs when people of different countries join together in a Kingdom-building effort that expands the opportunities to share the Gospel. Recently, STCH Ministries teams from American churches, Dominican ministry partners and members from the Peniel churches all came together in a collaborative project to expand Kingdom efforts in El Salvador to share Christ, reach children and families and develop disciple-making possibilities. 

Possibly the most important level of collaboration is required between mission teams and the “boots on the ground,” those called to build the Kingdom in the specific area, country and population in which they live. Mission team activities must be aligned with the goals of those that God has called to serve their own culture. 

STCH Ministries International began work in the Dominican Republic in 2006, bringing the light of hope into dark places, enabling children to develop their God-given potential and transforming families. The results motivated us to seek opportunities in other countries to impact children and families in the life-changing invitation to know and follow Christ. After visiting several countries, and surviving the Covid interruption, God pointed His finger south to the tiny country of El Salvador. In 2022, we found a similar heart-calling in Pastor Edgar Borja who leads the Peniel network of churches in reaching children and families with the hope of Christ. After several mission trips, we felt confirmed that God had led us to partner with the Peniel churches. Their priority on children and families, their creative ways of reaching them with the Gospel and their spirit of cooperation formed a common bond with STCH Ministries. 

One of the logistical challenges for our mission groups was housing, which was only available in a hotel some distance away, requiring daily bus travel and eating out. We felt more like tourists than the partner relationship that we valued. Pastor Borja offered the opportunity to build missionary housing at their main Santa Tecla location. The recently abandoned facility needed major renovations with a significant price tag. We would have to wait until God provided for this need. 

As we waited to “go,” God was working, and He soon provided a “sender” in the Bear Creek Church of Katy. “How can we help?” they asked, as they challenged the church to extend the Kingdom “in a manner worthy of God.” Shortly after, we received a significant donation which allowed the renovation process to begin. 

Collaboration reached a new level in the demolition and construction activities. Russell Jerez, the Director of Construction and Projects in the Dominican Republic, along with Robert Alcantara and Algenis Pichardo, arrived to lead the teams. They were joined by a group from Port Lavaca FBC and were followed by another group of men from Bear Creek. Salvadoran workers were also recruited as they engaged in the demolition of concrete barriers, tore down existing walls and built new ones. They stood on ladders, scraped down walls, replaced sheetrock and repaired ceilings. They also worked on building beds for future mission teams. 

The team members reflected diverse perspectives on why they came to serve. Russell saw collaboration in its most practical form as the team adapted Dominican methods of building a bed with available materials in El Salvador. Due to a lack of 4×4 posts, they substituted metal legs and used wood for the bed frame. He was impacted by the eagerness of the Salvadorans to serve, despite few resources, and to use what the team brought to reach others for the Kingdom. 

Some of the Port Lavaca team had previously been to the Dominican Republic. “I saw a picture on the wall in the Dominican Republic of the beginnings, and it looked like just a lot of dirt. We wanted to be a part of the beginnings here in El Salvador.” 

Danny Quintanilla, missions pastor from Bear Creek, stated: “We have partnered with STCH Ministries for many years and we wanted to share in the long-term impact this will have in El Salvador for future mission teams.” Pastor Borja agreed and commented, “I believe that this missionary housing will become a multiplier of all the ministry here in El Salvador, allowing us to be more flexible and less costly.” 

Robert Alcantara from the Dominican Republic said, “I came to work, and the work was very hard although gratifying. But what impacted me the most was when Pastor Borja introduced us to the Salvadoran church as missionaries. It changed my view of my purpose and my identity. I am not just a helper in construction. I am a missionary of the Gospel!” 

Another participant from Bear Creek shared, “I came seeking an opportunity to serve God in a way I haven’t been able to do before. I am close to retirement, and considering how I will spend the next phase of my life. I wanted to feel that I was adding value to myself and to others.” 

Adding value and multiplying Kingdom impact are attainable goals when collaboration is based on common goals, shared vision and respect for the calling God has given to each. These principles guide STCH Ministries as we partner with others to share Christ, strengthen families and enable children to become independent Christ-sharing adults in their own culture. 

Pastor Borja stated, “STCH Ministries teams have changed our perspective on what a mission team partnership can be. Specifically, in the way they integrate into the work we are called to do here in El Salvador. It has challenged us to do the work we have before us with new energy. Having the Dominicans join our work has opened our vision to how in the future we might be able to send our own people to other countries on mission.” 

Sulma Pichinte, who handles logistics for our teams in El Salvador, shared, “Your ministry allows us to expand what God has called and given us to do. It impacts our families and our pastors.” 

Sulma went on to say, “When you leave, we know that it’s not goodbye; it’s hasta pronto! Because you are involved with your hearts, and many more will continue to come, inspire others and form a real bond with us. Ultimately, we are all citizens of heaven. We all speak Kingdom language.” 

In this mission of collaborating to proclaim the Gospel of the Kingdom, we catch a glimpse of our ultimate citizenship and hear echoes of Revelation worship, “For you were slain, and by your blood you ransomed people for God from every tribe and language and people and nation!” Revelation 5:9. If you are interested in serving in either El Salvador or the Dominican Republic please visit, www.STCHM.org/International. If you would like to support the ongoing building project in El Salvador please email, jberry@stchm.org or call 361.994.0940. 

A New Life

“I AM ONLY NINETEEN,” she chuckled, “I have my whole life ahead of me.” When confronted with a difficult situation, a young mother, Jasmyne, had a decision to make. She could keep living life as she had been, or she could move to a new place, in a new town, with new people, and give herself and her son the fresh start they desperately needed. 

At the beginning of 2023, Jasmyne faced eviction from her apartment after an argument with her significant other. Feeling lost with no place to go, she reached out to a local shelter for help. At capacity, the shelter could not accept anyone else, but they told her about STCH Ministries Homes for Families. Jasmyne promptly filled out an application and interviewed with staff. In February 2023, she and her seven-month-old son, Adriel, moved into Phase I on the Marshall Campus and started their path toward healing. 

Before coming to Homes for Families, Jasmyne worked overnight at a convenience store. She struggled to find the time to bond with Adriel. She knew she needed to work to provide for her family but did not know how to balance life with work. Coming to the Marshall Campus meant that Jasmyne’s and Adriel’s needs were provided for, and it presented the opportunity for them to start bonding in a way they never had before. 

Jasmyne did not know what to expect coming to the campus. She knew about the rules and the structure but could not comprehend what it meant for her. She quickly adapted to the day-to-day structure; she even enjoyed it. It allowed her to focus on becoming the best version of herself and being the best mother for Adriel. “My relationship with Adriel has grown so much,” she shared. “I have grown a lot as a mother.” Jasmyne learned about the fruit of the Spirit and how to apply it to parenting. Through their time together, she discovered how to get on his level and talk to him gently and lovingly, instead of yelling when he did not understand her. 

Other aspects of Homes for Families did not come as easily for Jasmyne. She struggled initially with sharing her space with the other mothers and children on the Marshall Campus. She recognized that due to her attitude, she had been labeled as “unapproachable” most of her life and she knew she needed to change. 

The resident coordinators encouraged the mothers to communicate effectively, even during conflicts, and to find healthy ways to resolve issues. Jasmyne saw this as her opportunity to change herself for the better and to approach others differently. “It’s been part of my healing process. Now I can be openly communicative, and encourage others,” Jasmyne shared with a smile. “I learned that here.” She is optimistic about how this change will affect her relationships with others outside of Homes for Families and in her future career. 

In March 2024, Jasmyne moved to Phase II of Homes for Families, known as the equipping phase. In Phase II, the Bible studies and teachings become more in-depth and focus on practical applications for today’s issues. The Bible studies include an in-depth look at Ecclesiastes and the Experiencing God study. The work studies include work ethics, succeeding in the workplace and Excel, Word and PowerPoint classes. 

Since being in Phase II, Jasmyne has learned important communication and career skills. Recently, the mothers finished the STCH Ministries Faith & Work course and Jasmyne walked away with new insights into her personal core values and how she can put God first in her future career. Jasmyne also wrote her own mission statement: 

“My vision and desire is to teach and serve young women and men entering their adulthood. My mission is to be their safe place and help teach them about their emotions and how to communicate their needs to help them build boundaries. I believe in the Word of God and the power that it has to remold our brains and release those negative thought patterns that keep us from being our highest selves. I aim to teach these young adults so they can see themselves and the world around them through God’s eyes and build that love relationship and foundation on God. ‘And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.’ Philippians 1:6” 

Her dream is to become a radiologist, and she is eagerly but patiently waiting to be ready for Phase III, where she hopes to start attending radiology school. When asked if she plans on staying to graduate from Phase IV of the Homes for Families program, Jasmyne emphatically said, “Yes! I am not going back to my old life.” 

While Jasmyne has loved learning to become the mother she always wanted to be and working towards her career goals, the most important aspect of her growth has been her journey as a Christian. Growing up, Jasmyne rarely went to church and never truly learned about God. She was introduced to Christ by Adriel’s grandmother, but at that time she could not even begin to imagine what a relationship with Him could be. 

Since coming to Homes for Families, her relationship with Christ has blossomed. “I know that God is on my side and that God is not a hard hammer. He’s a loving God,” Jasmyne shared. “Jesus has always comforted me in my darkest moments, even when I was a mess. My relationship with God now is much clearer and more alive.” She has fully surrendered her life to Christ and is awaiting the day her mother and Adriel’s grandmother can attend her baptism. 

Jasmyne’s new relationship with Christ has even impacted almost two-year-old Adriel. “He loves Jesus, and he loves to pray and say amen,” Jasmyne exclaimed. Because Jasmyne is living with Christ in her heart, she can love her son the way he was meant to be loved. The way God loves her. She can provide for him a life that would not have been possible without STCH Ministries and the support she has received. 

Jasmyne attributes much of her transformation and newfound hope to the resident coordinators and other staff on the Marshall Campus. “I am grateful to the resident coordinators for loving me. We are not part of their family, and yet they choose to love us that way,” Jasmyne shared. “I have seen Christ in the staff here. I am just thankful for them.” STCH Ministries is blessed to have staff members who selflessly give of themselves to see lives transformed daily. 

Starting over can be difficult, but for Jasmyne, this new life is exactly what she needed. “Before, I was miserable from middle school through high school; I was just miserable,” Jasmyne shared with tears in her eyes. “So now, for me to wake up every day and want to get up and want to live is amazing. This place has given me my joy back. It’s given me my life back.” Jasmyne did not let the roadblocks of her life stop her; she pushed forward and received the help she needed. Now, at nineteen, she is living for the Lord and striving to be the best mother she can be. Jasmyne truly does have her whole life ahead of her and with the Lord by her side, she will accomplish great things, not just for herself but for Adriel as well. 

For more information on Homes for Families, visit, www.STCHM.org/hff.